Marriage
Welcome to the Oakwood Marriage Ministry
Marriage is one of the greatest gifts God has given us to enjoy and steward in this life. When marriage is done according to the values of the Kingdom of God not only is it an incredible blessing to the man and woman who form the nucleus of this new family, but it also blesses everyone it touches (children, parents, neighbors, the Church, and society); and above all of that it is a picture of Jesus’ relationship with His people – the Church. Therefore, here at Oakwood, we want to do everything we can to prepare you for marriage, help your marriage grow, and if necessary, facilitate restoring your marriage.
Marriage Prep
The World has taught us to put more emphasis on preparing for the wedding day than preparing for a lifetime of marriage. Marriage is one of the most incredible and most challenging journeys you will ever embark on. The Bible tells us we would be wise to count the cost and prepare ourselves for this life-altering commitment. If you are engaged to be married, sign up for one of our premarital classes. We offer Merge for first-time marriages and Marrying Again for people who have been previously married.
Merge
Merge is a premarital discipleship ministry designed for engaged couples. It’s a chance to seek wisdom and receive counsel about marriage in a safe, fun, and authentic environment. Merge addresses common questions and challenges from a biblical perspective. There is weekly homework and small group discussions over a 9-week period.
Cost is $25 per couple (each person will receive a workbook)
Merge Class Date:
Fall 2023: September 10 at 11:00a
Winter 2024: January 7 at 11:00a
Upon completion of Merge, you may request a completion certificate that can be presented to any Texas county clerk for up to $60 off your marriage license fee and waive the 72-hour waiting period. This is provided through the Twogether in Texas Healthy Marriage Program of which Oakwood is a registered provider.
Marrying Again
Marrying again, whether as the result of the death of a spouse or the divorce of a spouse, is, more often than ever, followed by a second marriage. Therefore, pre-marital counseling for couples who choose to marry again is vitally important. In seven sessions “Marrying Again” will address topics that need to be carefully considered before a second marriage.
Marrying Again Date:
Fall 2023: September 10 at 9:30a
If you are unable to attend Merge or Marrying Again, you have two other options:
- Oakwood Pastor 2-on-1 Counseling - Schedule an individual series of meetings with an Oakwood pastor by contacting our Family Pastor . (This is the best option if one of both individuals are not in New Braunfels and require long-distance counseling.)
- Oakwood Counseling Center - Schedule premarital counseling with a licensed counselor at our counseling center.
Marriage Growth
A marriage is a little bit like your lawn. You can just let nature take the wheel and see what happens. If that is your lawn maintenance plan, you are likely to have a good number of weeds, a variety of grasses, and some dead/dirt patches when the rain clouds are uncooperative. However, you can also take the approach of fertilizing it, irrigating it, and weeding it. If that is your approach, then you likely have a lawn that a few neighbors are envious of. When can choose to let our marriage run its natural course or we can continually care for and nurture it. That is the sure-fire way to have a growing, thriving marriage that other want to emulate.
re|engage
At Oakwood we participate in the re|engage marriage enrichment program. Marriages in any condition can benefit, whether you are struggling to get along, your marriage is broken, or you simply want to grow closer together as a couple. re|engage examines God’s design for marriage and how couples can grow together in true Biblical oneness.
Marriage of Your Dreams
Dream bigger, love better, and experience a deeper relationship with God and your spouse than ever before. Join us for a 4-week study created by counselor and pastor Dr. Paul David Tripp. This class has limited capacity; therefore, it will be offered multiple times.
Class 1: Sunday, 9/10/23 at 9:30a
Class 2: Sunday, 10/22/23 at 9:30a
Register for Marriage of Your Dreams
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Marriage Restore
At Oakwood we participate in the re|engage marriage enrichment program. Marriages in any condition can benefit, whether you are struggling to get along, your marriage is broken, or you simply want to grow closer together as a couple. re|engage examines God’s design for marriage and how couples can grow together in true Biblical oneness.
Counseling
Sometimes the best thing you can do for your marriage is to seek out professional help. God uses professional biblical counseling to soften hearts and open minds to understand yourself and your spouse better. Oakwood Counseling Center is a great place to find personalized help and licensed biblical counseling to help you restore your marriage. Just follow the link below to call or email and make an appointment today.
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